Life is really beautiful and beautiful, we see miracles everywhere, the birth of a child, nature, their colors, their magical sounds, flavours and smells, infinite, in short heaven so many beautiful things to see and to appreciate, infinite, however we hear the complaint ceaseless and constant unhappiness, sadness, melancholy, loneliness and isolation of human beings by a lack of knowledge and experience in the complex art of relating with others to through active communication. When I refer to the term of active communication, I mean one that allows me to establish a real, not imaginary, bridge with my partner or partners and achieve together and share the meaning common on a question, I mean a consensus between the parties, to concur with the body in the affirmative form, not just words, that we found, and this encounter Saint or Holy (course in miracles) instant leaves us renewed and transformed, trained to carry out changes in the environment since change is aroused in the if same as active and powerful communication product! A communication to make it effective necessarily has to produce transformations and changes in those involved, if not, simply has not happened the meeting, i.e. the active and effective communication. Is why we hear so often, complaints, is the not listens to me, is that she does not understand me, and what of aberration and they excuse me the grotesque expression, but it is that I can’t say it in another way, women have to want them, but don’t try to understand them, big mistake, and likely all more a rupture of that relationship that cannot be sustained in such foot madness. I hear often and is that your also, the following expressions in everyday conversations: is that separated why not communicated, in relation to marriages or relationships, adolescents were complaints of lack of understanding from their parents, it is that I do not understand, women complain of not being really included in our entirety and complexity for our couples, sometimes I think that I’m talking about with a wall, the men, for their part, as that does not seem to give him, apparently, many importance to the matter, and they act indifferent, but immensely they regret the consequences of not knowing, not understand, not able to reach out to loved ones when it is already too late!. .